Between the devil and the deep blue sea..
Sometimes life puts you in situations where you have to chose between the devil and the deep blue sea. like holding on and letting go. when holding on is costing you so much, like your hanging by your hands on a knife and every second that you hold on is cutting you up. and then you can chose to let go, when letting go means your falling onto the ocean when you don't know how to swim.
and then God's grace is made manifest by the overwhelming peace that comes to you in moments of surrender to His Will. A minute at a time. That's all i have to do. It is easy to forget God when i'm deep in my sorrows. But His answer has always been to take things a minute at a time. It's and age-old truth, ancient wisdom that i often forget. Whatever problem i may have, i will get by a minute at a time.